Children have always tested their parents and carers. It would be unusual indeed if a child never tried to push bedtime a little later or touched something forbidden. Such challenges are a normal part of growing up. Children need to begin to assert themselves and to take some control over their lives. But they also need to know that the adults in their world are in ultimate control and thus can take care of them.
It is important that the routines and limits set are reasonable and consistent and that they are discussed with and understood by the child. It is also important, however, that a child is encouraged to make decisions whenever possible in order to become steadily more confident and independent. Decision-making skills can be fostered in young children by offering two or three options, rather than leaving the child with a totally free and overwhelming choice.
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