Children are not fooled by the concept of the 'loving smack'. They know that what is actually going on is a big, powerful person hitting a smaller, less powerful one. As one child said, 'Smacking is what parents do when they hit you, only they call it a smack.'
That comment comes from a survey done by the National Children's Bureau and Save the Children among four- to seven-year-olds. The resulting paper, It Hurts You Inside - Children talking about smacking by Carolyne Willow and Tina Hyder, contains a number of frightening statistics - such as that 19 out of the 76 children consulted had been smacked on the head, face or cheek - and plenty of evidence that children believed physical punishment reinforced cycles of violent behaviour.
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